Annah & Michael
As a recent widow and survivor of multiple failed relationships, I finally got that I had to change; that I could no longer fool myself that I was picking the wrong men. After meeting different men that were full of lies, a stranger on the dating site I was introduced me to Love by Lira. At first, I said to myself that this was going to be the same point and miss, but due to there selective method of hooking singles up, I considered them some months later.
Few days after registration, I received some profiles and that was how I met Michael who was not my type in terms of looks or ambitions. However, he made me laugh, and after each email exchange or phone call, I found myself smiling uncontrollably. Being with him is really easy and fun, and he asked me very early on to marry him. I told him I wouldn’t answer that question for at least a year.
A year later I found myself stalling, so did some more soul searching and realized that I had succeeded in accepting him the way he was, but still didn’t allow myself the way I was (bossy, controlling, perfectionist). Michael is fine with me being like that, and now instead of getting grumpy and defensive, I can just laugh at myself and ease up.
We were married after a year and a half, and are having a lovely life. By the way, I attribute my finding “Mr Right” so quickly to the fact that LoveByLira made me feel at peace by doing the background job of making sure Michael was indeed Michael.
James & Sally
